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The dinner in Vegas that still haunts me
3 Mad Libs for telling a better money story
May 11
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Dan Cayer
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April 2026
Why Millennials are choosing Botox instead of down payments
Two pieces of advice for priced-out millennials
Apr 27
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Dan Cayer
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Why Retirement Planning is Harder for Women than for Men
Women, money, and all the reasons we need to be paying more attention
Apr 13
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Dan Cayer
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March 2026
Why I got kicked out of meditation class
And why rigid spending rules don’t work
Mar 30
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Dan Cayer
24
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How to Stop Chasing Money
What Les Miserables reveals about personal finance in America
Mar 23
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Dan Cayer
20
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You can spend without regret
There is no such thing as a single spending decision.
Mar 16
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Dan Cayer
28
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The First Step to Getting Good at Money
Why seeing money as a skill can change your relationship with it
Mar 9
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Dan Cayer
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The ADHD Money Problem Nobody Talks About
Overcoming the resistance that keeps you stuck
Mar 2
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Dan Cayer
23
15
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February 2026
Can You Pay Me Back?
3 strategies for the awkward art of asking for money back
Feb 23
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Dan Cayer
22
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Are you an owner or a consumer?
This is just my two cents
Feb 18
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Dan Cayer
25
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Your relationship with money is a relationship with yourself
Inheriting the choices of past-you
Feb 9
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Dan Cayer
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15
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Why is personal finance advice so mean?
You've been trained to accept this. You don't have to.
Feb 2
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Dan Cayer
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