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Ruthie's avatar

I bristle at the term 'allowance' if I'm being honest, but my middle class (public school teachers) parents have insisted on sending me money every month for years (I am 40). Their stance is: they have more than they need, and they'd rather my brother and I have an easier life now, than inherit a load of money (with taxes heavily taken out) when they pass. It makes them feel good that due to their gifts my brother and I are more able to afford a car payment, or save for the house down payment that we both managed to purchase our 30s. No one in our family lives extravagant lives, and we believe that money is best used to make our lives better, and be shared, so that's what we do. If they had a change and circumstance, and couldn't give us money any longer, I'm confident both of our families would adjust our budgets and be ok, but I sure do appreciate their generosity. It's like the middle class version of what rich people have been doing for generations.

GmaFarmer's avatar

Some good references here but why not include a gift link? I’m not subscribing to a newspaper just to see the article from WSJ.

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